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	First post in the problems board... lucky me... 03.03.10 at 23:11:20 This week has been fucking horrid... Backstabbed and ignored by "friends" Social rejection Depressive lull, lack of motivation (I have depression) And to cap it all off... ...saw someone die yesterday. Ain't life grand.
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	Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me... Reply #1 - 04.03.10 at 10:41:26 Sought counselling or anything like that? It actually does help, despite any doubt you may possibly have for it. Not talking psyche, just a counsellor, muchhhh cheaper
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	Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me... Reply #2 - 04.03.10 at 11:14:24 Who died? A friend, a mere acquaintance, or a random stranger?
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	Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me... Reply #3 - 04.03.10 at 16:29:41 Random stranger, hit by train at Aspendale station. I saw the body and watched as she struggled to breathe. Joshy, I'm currently going through counselling for not just this event but for my depression... In any case (and to look on the bright side), soon I might be able to come to a LUNASY event
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Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me...
Reply #4 - 04.03.10 at 23:45:20

Grasso wrote on 04.03.10 at 16:29:41:

Random stranger, hit by train at Aspendale station. I saw the body and watched as she struggled to breathe.

It's normal practice to wait until the prospective cadaver stops breathing before you start referring to it as a "body". Was she hot? Because I'd say the amount you should care about the event is directly proportional to how hot she was.

Where all that other stuff is concerned ... well, people will be douchebags. Frequently, and with verve. You just have to rise above them, and go on with your life knowing that you're better than that. Learn to look down your nose at people and sneer as they walk by. Eventually, you will probably find some people who deserve more than your utter disdain, and then you can let them hang out with you and bask in the radiance of your presence. Or you could come and bask in mine. Whatever blows your skirt up.

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	Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me... Reply #5 - 05.03.10 at 14:49:17 i dont think hes kidding.
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Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me...
Reply #6 - 05.03.10 at 20:00:36

Firstly... *hug* You're going through some really bad stuff.
Secondly...Yes, peoples will be douchebags...I spent the majority of my Primary school and secondary school years pretty much alone because my school was full of 'em. I also work in retail... *shudder*

Thirdly...If your friends have backstabbed and ignored you, make new ones, I am willing to be one of these new ones.

Fourthly...I can't imagine what it would be like to watch someone die...But you must be a really awesome person if you care that much about a complete stranger (believe me, in todays society, its rare).

Take care, and I hope to see you at screenings and such. Cheesy

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Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me...
Reply #7 - 05.03.10 at 22:12:13

Grasso wrote on 04.03.10 at 16:29:41:

Random stranger, hit by train at Aspendale station. I saw the body and watched as she struggled to breathe.

...Whoa

Yeah, getting counselling - good counselling - after an experience like that is crucial. Oftentimes things like that will affect a person in ways that slip under the radar for months, or years. I mean hell that happens with much lesser traumas.

As for getting backstabbed...my sympathies/empathies dude, I've been through that myself more times than I care to count. Most of these cases were of people pretending to be my friend out of "pity", and then deciding later that I'm too intolerable to keep around; had a few much grander cases over the last year, too.

It's amazing how many people will try to justify the most ridiculous accusations, and the most bald-faced lies.

But don't go too far in the other direction and forget how to let people into your life, either.

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Reply #8 - 07.03.10 at 17:34:54

Okay well I've been speaking to family, friends and counsellors and most of the stuff relating to that is out of the way... the depression is slowly leaving. Thanks for your helpful responses.

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Was she hot?

Took absolutely no notice of this. Furthermore, I said 'body' in reference to seeing it after she died too... yeah. This issue with friends has been largely resolved too, so that's all good. Still got fuck all motivation though :\

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I also work in retail...

Likewise, except they cut 30 hours out of the roster so I've been lucky to get one shift every two weeks now.

Thank you for showing that even "strangers" care Tongue

Hope to meet you in person later in the year

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	Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me... Reply #9 - 07.03.10 at 17:46:38 Yea turn up to an event for once
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	Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me... Reply #10 - 07.03.10 at 18:14:36 [ Joshy-San ] wrote on 07.03.10 at 17:46:38: Yea turn up to an event for once Was that directed at him or me? 'cause both seem to be applicable
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	Re: First post in the problems board... lucky me... Reply #11 - 07.03.10 at 18:30:18 It's directed to EVERYONE. Events are full of anime... and stuffs >.>
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